Monday, August 17, 2015

Kicks, twirls and movements!

We went for our monthly check up yesterday at SGH. Baby is doing great and now weighs around 600g! For the past week, I have been feeling pushes, kicks and movements in my bladder area and I have discovered why. My doctor told me that the baby's head is laying on my bladder so there we go. It's putting a lot of pressure on my bladder which explains why I have to wake up to pee like 4 times EVERY. SINGLE. NIGHT. It's so disruptive to my sleep but nothing I can do.

These days, the baby's kicks are definitely getting much stronger and harder and movements are becoming more frequent too. I still remember the day I first felt him kick me gently. It was 10th July (19 weeks). It was such a strange feeling but I loved it!
As of yesterday, I have gained a total of 6kg in my 24 weeks of pregnancy. The next check up will be in 5 weeks time at 29 weeks. I also had to have a compulsory blood test done to test for hepatitis and HIV. Trouble is, I had not eaten the whole day prior to going for my check up and so when it came time to draw 3 tubes worth of my blood, the nurse couldn't find my veins! And so I was poked and prodded in both my right and left arm till she managed to collect 3 tubes full of blood. Not pleasant. Not pleasant at all.
Note to self : EAT before every doctor's check up cause you never know when they will need to take a blood test from you.


 
The aftermath :(
 
 

Touching her unborn godson!
 
 

15th August (24 weeks)
 
 

17th August 2015.


Tuesday, August 11, 2015

RED.

We celebrated Singapore's 50th birthday over the weekend. It was so nice to enjoy a long 4 day weekend but of course it sucks being back at work today.

So, I thought that I didn't really have any cravings since being pregnant but I think there is one craving that has recently snuck up on me : ICE CREAM. First, you need to know that I hate ice cream. I eat it at the very most once a year or once in one and a half years but over this long weekend, I found myself wanting to have an ice cream after a meal. So last night, me and my aunty Heather who is visiting from Perth, had a very decadent chocolate fudge sundae from McDonald's. It was delish. I ate everything! And the day before, I had had 2 scoops of coconut ice cream that came with my red ruby thai dessert. Let's hope this doesn't continue!

I've also developed a new pain that I get right down the centre of my tummy if I bend down too fast and then get up too fast. Experienced it last night while bending down to apply eye drops to my dog Kaiser. Poor little mutt has a small ulcer on the surface of his right eye and so he can't quite open that eye fully. We took him to the vet on 9th August and he has antibiotics, anti inflammatory meds and eye drops which he absolutely loathes. He tries to nip our hands and fingers each time we try applying drops to his eye. I guess it stings upon application. I hope he gets well soon. The vet said he should be alright in 7-10 days time.

I've got my next check up with my gynae this coming Saturday 15 August. I shall record down my total weight gain then. I'm definitely feeling the baby kick and move about every day now. It's slowly becoming more regular and some of his kicks and pokes are starting to feel stronger and harder. Also, it seems the baby has discovered how to jump on my bladder. That sensation, my friends, is not a pleasant one and I've been told that it just keeps getting worse as the weeks roll by and baby gets heavier and stronger. Every time he jumps on my bladder, I rush to the toilet, afraid that I might have leaked.

Nonetheless, I'm looking forward to seeing the baby kicking and wriggling on the ultrasound :)

 
We call him "Squinty" now. Haha.
 
 
 
Aunty Heather & I at Pulau Ubin (8 August 2015)
 
 

 
Almost 24 weeks (9 August 2015)
 

 

Tuesday, August 4, 2015

Is it a boy or a girl?

When I first found out I was pregnant, I kinda knew that I would not wanna know the sex of my baby. I thought it would be such a lovely, old-fashioned surprise that way. Back when technology wasn't this advanced, parents-to-be had no way of knowing their baby's gender and it was fun because it left people guessing and speculating and you could even have bet going on! That's what I had in mind with our baby. I thought it would be such fun to get everyone to place their bets and then we would divide all the money among those who had guessed correctly. But noooooo. The hubster felt it would be better for us to know so that we could start picking out the baby's name and buying clothes etc.

On 16 June, at my routine doctor's check up at SGH, my gynae asked if I would like to know the baby's sex and I said yes. And he told me that he was 80% sure that we were going to have a BOY! And on the 18th July at our detailed 20 week anomaly scan, the sonographer and our gynaecologist confirmed that I was carrying a boy. Both of us were really happy. Then again, we would have been happy with a boy or a girl as long as the baby was healthy. I had read on a few websites that boy babies tend to be born heavier than girl babies. I wonder if there's any truth in that.

Anyways, just thought I'd share some cool and interesting things that I learned about pregnancy and stuff from reading my pregnancy books.


Interesting Pregnancy Facts

1. The sex of a baby is determined by whether the sperm that fertilizes the egg caries the X or Y version of chromosome 23. That actually means that the sex of the baby is determined by the father and not by the mother.
2. Babies can apparently cry in the womb.

3. During pregnancy, a woman's uterus expands to about 500 times its normal size and will shrink back to its pre-pregnancy size by 6 weeks postpartum.
 
4. During pregnancy, a woman's internal organs such as intestines, kidneys and liver get shifted around to make way for the expanding uterus and growing baby. This often causes heartburn and indigestion.
 
5. When pregnant, a woman's body produces up to 50% more blood to cater to the needs of the baby.
 
6. A pregnant woman can expect to gain anywhere from 8-15 kg during pregnancy without having to eat extra or increase their daily caloric intake. This is because the body naturally gains weight due to extra blood, amniotic fluid, the weight of the baby, the weight of the placenta, the weight of the enlarged uterus, water retention and maternal fat stores which are used for breastfeeding.
 
7. A woman will lose between 5-8 kg immediately after giving birth after losing the weight of the baby, placenta, blood and amniotic fluid.
 
8. A woman's breasts can increase up to 3 cup sizes during pregnancy in preparation for breastfeeding.
 
9. A woman's heart has to work harder during pregnancy due to the 40-50% increase in blood supply.
 
10. Babies heads usually turn and descend into the birth canal during weeks 34-37 to prepare for labour and birth.
 
11. Babies get hiccups while in utero and their mothers are able to feel this sensation.
 
12. Women with an anterior placenta tend to feel baby's kicks and movements slightly later than women with posterior placentas. This is because the placenta acts as a cushion between baby and stomach. However, by week 28, most women will be able to feel strong baby movements regardless of the position of the placenta.
 
13. Most miscarriages occur in the first trimester during weeks 0-13.
 
14. Babies can hear sounds and recognize their mother's voice by week 22. They can also get startled by external noises.
 
15. The task of producing breast milk requires a lot of energy and can burn up to 500 calories per day!
 
16. Recent studies have shown that pregnancy stretch marks are mainly hereditary. If your mother had stretch marks while pregnant, chances are you'll get them too.
 
17. After a baby is born and the umbilical cord is cut, an umbilical stump remains and usually drops off on its own after two weeks.

 

Our first ultrasound

We had our first check up on the 18th April at Singapore General Hospital and we also had our first ultrasound to confirm that there was a viable pregnancy and a heartbeat from the baby too. Everything looked good. We met our gynae for the first time that day. Dr Tan Hak Koon is a man of little words and doesn't say much unless there is something to talk about. So he reassured us that all was good with the baby and that I was about 6 weeks pregnant that day based on the size of the foetus. Here are the ultrasound pictures at 10 weeks, 12 weeks and 16 weeks. They usually tell you it's best to wait till you have passed your first trimester (week 1-13) before you announce your pregnancy. This is because most miscarriages occur during this time and it is regarded as the most crucial trimester.



 
Ultrasound at 10 weeks (13th May 2015)
 
 
 
Ultrasound at 12 weeks (26th May 2015)
 
 
Ultrasound at 16 weeks (16th June 2015)
 
 
 
Here I am at about 17 weeks sporting a tiny baby bump (June 2015)
 
 
Being Asian and living in an Asian country, there was certainly no shortage of pregnancy advice that came my way. Prior to being pregnant, I had heard of some of the things that you should and shouldn't do when you are pregnant. I had heard that a pregnant woman shouldn't bend down, shouldn't lift heavy things, shouldn't go out late at night, shouldn't eat raw foods for fear of food poisoning etc etc. The list goes on and on. And then when I finally started telling people I was pregnant, I heard all sorts of strange advice from women young and old who had children. Here are just some of the things I had been advised to do and advised against. I swear we have so many superstitions and traditional beliefs in our Asian society. It's pretty crazy! 


Pregnant women should ...
 
 
1. Not drink cold drinks because you should keep your womb as warm as possible.
2. Not bend down where possible.
3. Drink a lot of milk to provide the growing foetus with calcium.
4. Not eat pineapple, watermelon, bananas and other "cooling" fruits. This apparently will cause your baby to be born with a lot of phlegm.
5. Abstain from sex for the entire duration of pregnancy.
6. Not sleep on their backs at night but on their sides instead.
7. Eat for two.
8. Not bathe with cold water.
9. Not go for Brazilian waxing.
10. Hang pictures of beautiful babies in their homes and stare at them every day if they want a handsome/pretty baby.
11. Not watch horror movies as the baby will feed off the mother's emotions and be affected if she gets a shock or is startled.
12. Not rub their belly affectionately or else the baby will turn out to be spoiled and needy.
13. Only wear baggy or loose clothes lest the baby is suffocated.
14. Drink plenty of milk every day if they would like a fair skinned baby.
 

I told you some of the advice I got was weird!
 
Since we were both first time parents, the hubster and I decided that we ought to go out and buy ourselves a couple of baby books for dummies like ourselves. So we went to Kinokuniya one fine Saturday morning and bought two books for ourselves. In the following weels, I also saw some other pregnancy and parenting books which I thought might come in handy so I bought them and excitedly rushed home to start reading. I still read these books till today and as I write this blog entry, I am into my 24th week of pregnancy aka 6 months.

 
 
I don't think our dog Kaiser enjoys this book as much as I.
 
 
 
I don't know much about being pregnant and having babies so ...
 
 
 
19 weeks (July 2015)
 
 
 
19 + weeks (July 2015)
 
 
 
21 Weeks.
 
 

My EDD (estimated due date) is slated for 8th December 2015. I would be exactly 40 weeks pregnant then but doctors say that a baby is considered full term from week 37 onwards and babies can be delivered any time after that as their lungs are fully developed by this time. It's a scary thought, huh? The thought of you going about your day as usual and then suddenly you feel a gush of water streaming down between your legs while you're in public! But maybe that only happens in Hollywood movies for a more dramatic effect? I have no idea. My gynae told me that I would either feel contractions coming on or I might feel a sudden release of water in the form of a trickle or a gush. Either way, I'm getting my hospital bags packed & ready by week 34. Just in case the little one decides to come early.


Weight gain as of 18th July - 4.5 kg
Cravings - None.
 

Hello world. I'm pregnant!

Hey there! It's Melissa here and I'm new to blogging. I decided to set up this blog to chronicle my on going pregnancy. I figured that one fine day, I might wake up and realize that I miss being pregnant and even miss the discomforts that come along with it. Ever since I found out that I was pregnant, I have been talking to lots of women around me who are around my age, give or take, who have kids and almost all of them have told me that they missed the feeling of being pregnant at some point in their lives and so a few of them suggested that I write my memorable experiences in a diary or blog about it as well as take loads of photos each month. And so this is how this blog came about!

So, I'll start things off by keeping the story short. I got married in February 2015 and I found out I was pregnant on the 31st March which also happens to be my late grandfather's birthday. I think I was about 4 weeks pregnant then.

Just thought I'd put up two pre-pregnancy pictures of myself so I'll remember how I looked like just weeks before I was pregnant. This picture was taken on my wedding day in February.



And a pic taken just a few days after my wedding (seen here with my aunty Heather and cousin James)

 
 
 
Anyways, I shall not get into the story of how I eventually told my husband that I was expecting but let's just say that we were both really surprised upon finding out! But yes, I told him on the evening of 31st March 2015 with a wrapped up pregnancy test kit that screamed the words "PREGNANT" in the results window. (Peeing on a stick isn't all that fun, FYI)
 
Before I got pregnant, I was roughly 50 kg. I shall be keeping track of my pregnancy weight gain in this blog too as well as any weird cravings I may have and all the unpleasant things that unfortunately come bundled with pregnancy. Oh and one thing I didn't know was that an average human pregnancy lasts for about 40 weeks aka 10 months not 9. This is because they add an extra few weeks because there is just no way doctors can pin point the exact date of conception. That said, here's to a relatively pleasant 40 weeks or so of pregnancy and a smooth (and hopefully pain-free) delivery. Epidural shall be the name of my new best friend. Sorry Shu!